Have
you ever asked ten women how they really like to be kissed?
I did this the other week and was surprised about the feedback.
One of the most valuable things I have learned in kissing is
to first check out if she really wants to be kissed.
I
do a few things to check this out. I observe my date’s
body language and see if she is facing me, exposing a leg or
touching her hair etc.
Once
you get a feeling that your date could be interested in kissing
you, I like to touch her hair lightly and say, you have great
hair. Maybe then I very lightly run my fingers up the back of
her hair. Women love a very light touch on any part of their
bodies.
Eye
contact is very important. This brings you closer together and
more intimacy develops. The eyes bring presence and energy to
the relationship.
When
I touch, I like to be very present in my hand and enjoy the
touch inside myself. I do not touch to turn her on, as she will
pick up on this. If I feel energy in touching she will pick
this up and respond too.
Another thing I do sometimes is to touch her face very lightly
and look into her eyes. I lightly grab her hair and pull slightly.
I have had women dissolve from doing this.
Most
women like you to take the lead. This shows you are a confident
man. Wussy behavior is to ask for a kiss. Visit my site www.bodyecstatic.com
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So
hopefully the stage is set now for a kiss. Start gently with
no tongue and then stop kissing her and pull away. This is a
great tease and lets the women know you are in control and not
needy. Wait till she really wants your tongue inside and no
sloppy kisses please.
Most
men try to use their tongue too soon and I have talked to many
women about this and they hate it. Another turn off is sloppy
kissing.
Bad
breath is another real turn off. Clean your teeth before dating
and use a mouthwash and tongue scraper. What food you eat can
also influence your breath. Garlic is a no no on a date, unless
she is eating it too.
Gentle
and soft is best to start. Talk again and then kiss and she
will respond more. Tease her again and sometimes she will get
so turned on she will grab you and want to take over from there.
Have
fun with your next kiss.
Mauice
Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute
of Sexology. To improve your relationships go to Free Sex Tips:
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