By Sacha
Tarkovsky
We have
already looked at what the female orgasm is in other articles,
here we are going to look at how you and your partner can
achieve satisfying orgasms and enhance your relationship.
The conditions
must be correct for your partner to achieve orgasm, both partners
must be relaxed and in a comfortable setting and feel totally
at ease.
The feeling
of anxiety must not be present, as well as the moods of both
partners must be happy and without care. This psychological
aspect is somehow as important as the physical ones.
Relax
and set the mood with foreplay
To achieve orgasm, as much foreplay as possible must be performed.
In most cases, and where the woman wishes it, cunnilingus
is very effective.
In fact,
if cunnilingus is properly performed the woman will reach
an initial orgasm. It should take on the average about 20
minutes. See the net-planet article on cunnilingus for the
correct and effective procedures. Do not stop however, as
the larger and more important orgasm is yet to come.
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Positions for great female orgasm
There are three positions that almost insure a long and pleasurable
female orgasm. Do not attempt any of the three without adequate
foreplay (or the cunnilingus as above).
The first
position has many names, but as mentioned in the Perfumed
Garden (a classic Arabic text from the golden age of Arabic
Literature), it is called Dok-al-Arz, or “pounding on
the spot”.
This position assures 3 important factors in copulation. The
first is depth of the penis. The second is the “G-Spot
angle” and the third is maximum clitoral stimulation.
To achieve
this position the man sits on the edge of the bed, and the
woman sits on the man, inserting his penis deeply into her
vagina. She then wraps her legs around him, as well as her
arms. The couple is free to kiss if desired.
Then the
woman begins a slow grinding movement (no thrusting is possible).
She is able to stimulate simultaneously her clitoris and G-Spot.
The orgasm comes quickly and with great intensity.
Should
the man be able to ejaculate into her womb as she is finishing,
the result is only intensified. The woman will love the man
greatly if performed well.
The second
position also has a great many names, but is commonly knows
as The Gates of Heaven.
To perform
this The woman lies on her back. The man lies or kneels in
alignment with the vagina.
The man will hold (or press with his shoulder) the woman's
leg(s) upwards to adapt the positioning of the woman's pelvis.
This position, as believed by some, achieves a faster and
more intense type of female orgasm.
This can
be accomplished through lifting the women's leg(s) higher
upwards; the deeper the man's penis can fully go in.
Again,
there is both clitoral and G-Spot
stimulation. Again, there is very little or no thrusting,
but a slow and steady grinding movement. If the woman and
man can grind in rhythm, the effect is only heightened.
The third
position is a variation of the second, and is called Crab
on its Back. This position, like the previous two assures
maximum clitoral and G-Spot stimulation. This position allows
for some thrusting.
The woman
lies on her back with a cushion beneath her buttocks, and
the man kneels or lies on top of her while pressing her thighs
hard against her chest. The vagina will be tighter and the
cervix will be pushed forward, so the penis presses against
the cervix when thrusting, with a corresponding intensity
of sensation. The result is often a very quick and immediate
orgasm (or series of orgasms) of the woman.
Achieving
satisfaction
The practicing of these three positions will give you and
your partner a lot of pleasure and if done correctly can help
her achieve wonderful orgasms to enhance and fulfill your
relationship with each other.
For more
free information on Female sexual issues including, satisfaction,
health and a variety of related subjects visit: http://www.net-planet.org/sexhealth.html
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