Our
bodies are constantly changing from the day we are born until
the day we die. Puberty is the period of time when children
begin to mature biologically, psychologically, socially and
cognitively. Girls start to grow into women and boys into
men.
This process
can take a year or even six years. This time period is when
a child's body takes on those characteristics that define
it sexually. Both males and females bodies will each take
on a different shape. Keep in mind that everyone matures at
their own pace, but that eventually we all catch up. Puberty leads
to adolescence.
Adolescence
is a transitional period between childhood and adulthood.
The changes of adolescence do not occur on a strict timeline;
instead the changes occur at different times according to
a unique internal calendar known only to the person. Adolescence
can be a very difficult time. You are no longer a child, but
you are not an adult yet either.
What Causes All These Changes?
Hormones
cause these changes. The brain knows when the body is nearing
sexual maturity. It releases chemicals called hormones. Different
hormones are responsible for different changes in you. As
you get nearer to puberty, the brain and pituitary gland release
hormones that regulate the reproductive organs of both males
and females. These hormones stimulate the ovaries of girls
to produce other hormones called estrogen and progesterone,
and the testes of boys to produce testosterone.
Growth hormones are also
stimulated—they make the body grow larger; sometimes very
quickly. Arms and legs get longer and internal body organs
get larger. Your body is experiencing a major growth surge.
This surge lasts about two to three years.
Some people
can even grow up to four inches in one year during this growth period
known as the growth spurt. When this growth period
is over you will be at your adult height. As your body grows
taller your body will also change in other ways also. You
will gain weight, and your overall shape will change. Boy's
shoulders will widen, and their bodies will become more muscular.
At the same time their voices will become deeper, their genitals will enlarge.
All these changes mean that the body is developing correctly
during puberty.
Girls
usually become curvier during this time, they tend to gain
weight on their hips, (some don't) and their breasts develop.
Girls often will notice an increase in overall body fat. If
you ever have questions or concerns about your weight, talk
it over with your health care provider or parent. After one
to two years after a girl's breasts start to develop they
will experience their first menstrual period. One more change
that lets you know that puberty is happening. We talk more
about the menstrual cycle in detail in our Menstrual
Cycle section.
Boys,
between the ages of twelve and seventeen will see their shoulders
broaden, the muscles strengthen and the genitals develop and
darken to become covered with pubic hair. The larynx lengthen
and the voice 'breaks' on its way to becoming "deeper." Spontaneous
erections start to occur (sometimes embarrassing); nocturnal
emissions of sperm are also a sign of sexual maturity. See
"Wet
Dreams" for more information on those.
One of the first signs that puberty has begun is hair growth. Boys and girls
begin to grow hair under their arms and in the pubic area.
As puberty
progresses it will become thicker, darker and heavier. Boys
will begin to grow hair on their faces.
Another
part of puberty is acne which is caused by all the hormones that
are present during puberty. (See our Acne section for more
on this annoying problem.) As you enter puberty, the puberty
hormones affect the glands that are under your arms and cause
you to have "body odor."
This is normal and everybody gets it, it can be more intense
for some teens, and often you are just unlucky if you have
a problem with body odor, but check out that link.
Hormones
are also responsible for the emotional changes that take place
during puberty. You may feel confused, have emotional outbursts,
feel sad, or have strong emotions or mood that change quickly.
You might be overly sensitive or easily lose your temper.
There are those crazy hormones working on you again.
If you
feel really out of control or depressed, consult with your
health care provider. If you think a friend or you are depressed,
see "When A Friend is Depressed"
and Depression.
Also useful are the following articles: Stress, Stress Skills, and Stress
Management. These pages have all kinds of helpful ways to deal
with the stress of this trying time.
When Does Puberty Happen?
For
girls, puberty can begin between the ages of nine to fourteen.
For boys, it will be around age ten to seventeen. (See the
charts on the next page for girls and there is one for boys,
for more details). The whole process can last from only one
year to as many as six years. Lots of things are happening.
A boy is becoming a man, a girl a woman. Puberty also brings
adolescence—those new thoughts and feelings. Sometimes
these physical and emotional changes don't happen at the same
time. A girl or boy can possibly mature emotionally before
they do physically. The opposite is also true. This can be
a very difficult time. Sometimes kids who start to develop
early are not prepared for the myriad changes going on in
their bodies. Boys also feel that their bodies are out of
proportion. These feelings can make one very self-conscious
and even feel very socially isolated.
Common Concerns of Adolescents
Common
concerns identified by adolescents include conflicts with
parents, conflicts with siblings, concerns about peers and
peer relationships, concerns about school and in todays
world, concerns about their physical safety.
Personal
identity is an overwhelming concern expressed by adolescents.
Parents of adolescents may also have concerns about their
child during this period. Common concerns related to the adolescents
behavior include: risk-taking behavior, rebelliousness, wasting
time, mood swings, drug experimentation, school problems,
psychosomatic complaints and sexual activity. Communication
between family members can help make this transition a much
less stressful period! For
more on mental health topics, see the Mental
Health area.
If you
are going through these changes and finding it difficult,
just remember that soon you will be a young man or a young
woman. Talk to your parents about how you are feeling, they
went through this period of change too (believe it or not),
or talk to a friend. Your friends are probably going through
the same thing. Sometimes it helps to discuss the changes
that are going on in your body, this way you won't feel strange
or alone with the changes in your voice, mood, body and so
on. I know it might be hard to believe this, but your parents
went through puberty too once.