Q.
Can I have sex while I have my period? I use tampons,
what do I do about that?
A.
As long as both of you are comfortable about having
sex during your period then of course you can. Since you're
a tampon user, remember to remove the tampon before having
sex. Or you can use pads around that time.
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Q.
Are there any long-term effects of masturbating?
Will I still be able to father children?
A.
There are people
who never masturbate, those who masturbate two or more times
a day, those who do it a couple times a year, as well as everything
in between. Many people masturbate throughout their lifetime
-- yes, even married people without any side effects, besides
pleasure or relief from tension. If masturbating is not interfering
with your life the amount you are masturbating isn't hurting
you. If you feel sore from masturbating too much, than that
is too much for you. Yes, you can have children. You still
produce healthy sperm if you masturbate or not... assuming
you are producing a healthy sperm count.
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Q.
What is auto-erotic asphyxiation?
A.
Auto-erotic asphyxiation is the Induction of cerebral anoxia
-- a deficiency of oxygen in the brain -- through self-applied
suffocation methods while masturbating.
It
is estimated that between 500 and 1000 deaths occur annually
in the United States from this dangerous type of masturbation.
Most commonly performed by young adult males, it almost always
remains a secret until they die accidentally.
The
interference of blood supply to the brain brought on by auto-erotic
asphyxiation can intensify sensations. The lack of blood,
therefore oxygen to the brain can produce giddiness, exhilaration
or a self-induced "high". It's also believed the self-endangerment
inherent in the technique enhances the person's sexual gratification.
This technique often involves using a rope, belt or another
device to cause the asphyxiation.
Of
course, this same self-endangerment that may provide a thrill
to the person carrying out auto-erotic asphyxiation also weakens
one's self-control and judgment possibly resulting in accidental
death.
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Q.
What is the difference between a male and female orgasm?
A.
The most obvious difference in orgasms is that male orgasms
are usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen. Ejaculation
involves the secretion of semen into the urethra (urinary
tube) and a rhythmic contraction of pelvic muscles that forces
the semen out of the urethra. In males, however, orgasms can
occur with or without ejaculation. (When men have orgasms
without ejaculation, the pelvic muscles contract and you feel
like youre having an orgasm, but the semen is prevented
from being secreted into the urethra). More on that in a minute...
called: retrograde ejaculation.
During orgasm for
a female, the rhythmic contractions take place within the
pelvic muscles, in the uterus as well as the walls of the
vagina. In most women, there is no fluid ejaculated during
orgasm. Another difference between male and female orgasm
is that women do not experience a refractory period and may
have multiple orgasms with continued or additional stimulation.
Retrograde
Ejaculation: Less commonly, the semen is pushed backward
into the bladder during orgasm and appears as milky fluid
that comes out during urination after sex. This is called
retrograde ejaculation and happens occasionally when men try
to prevent ejaculation during orgasm and is usually not a
sign of a disorder. However, retrograde ejaculation does happen
more frequently in people with diabetes or after surgery,
causing damage to the nerves around the penis.
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